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Written by Gayle Nobel   
Wednesday, 18 August 2010 16:28

Blog-a-thon Day 23... whoo, hoo!

Random thoughts on thoughts....

This came into my email box a few days ago. I subscribe to Andrea Beauileu's daily Ah-Ha's.

"What ideas do you carry about yourself, or someone else, that are truly not true? Have you ever really questioned what your mind says?

P.S. So many of our thoughts have no basis in reality. None whatsoever. Be skeptical of your thoughts, and you just might find your authentic voice -- moi!!" 
For more about "your authentic voice", check out http://www.yourauthenticvoice.com/.

This led me to some thoughts about thoughts.

Thoughts are constant and yes, often extremely inaccurate. I mean, where do we get some of this junk our mind makes up all day? A lot of it has no basis in reality yet we often give tremendous power to our thoughts. We actually believe them and then maybe even act on them and then sometimes wonder how we manage to mess things up. Hmmm....

I've decided it is very important to be skeptical of our thoughts and mindful before we act on them.  Personally, I have gotten myself into trouble in the past by acting too quickly on some of my thoughts.

Here's what Sally Kempton, writer for Yoga Journal says about thoughts. (http://www.yogajournal.com/practice/1106)

"Everything that appears in your mind is made of consciousness, or, if you like, mind energy. Your thoughts and feelings--the difficult, negative, passionate ones as well as the peaceful and clever ones--are all made of the same subtle, invisible, highly dynamic "stuff." Mind energy is so evanescent that it can dissolve in a moment, yet so powerful that it can create an inner reality that runs you for a lifetime.

The fact is that most of us never pay attention to the substance of our thoughts. We are much too caught up in their content, which we implicitly believe is important and real. In fact, thought content is simply the passing form that thought energy happens to be taking at any given moment. There's an energetic dance going on inside everyone's mind, but rather than seeing the dance itself, we get caught up in its story line."

I guess it's the mind's job to have thoughts. That's what it does. However, we can make it our job to spend some time (yoga class, meditation, LIFE) just being an observer. We can watch the thoughts without becoming actively engaged with them. I practice this regularly and yes, it is often very challenging. However, just the act of trying even for a couple of minutes, can be powerful.

Today in yoga class I got some help with this.  We practiced using the mantra "let it be". As we did our breathing we repeated "let it be". When we noticed we were getting caught up in our thoughts again during class, "let it be" helped settle the mind back down.

"Not doing a very good job in this yoga pose. Let it be. Grocery list? Let it be. Hope I get to my next appointment on time. Let it be. Nervous about an important meeting I have later in the day. Let it be." You get the idea.

"Let it be."  Short, simple and to the point.  I kinda like that mantra. How about you?

PS Yesterday's post had an issue with the link. Some of you may have received it in your email box before it was corrected. Scroll down and you will find it is now working and well worth the view. 

 






Last Updated on Wednesday, 18 August 2010 17:24
 
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 Blog-a-thon Day 22

Aging is ALL ABOUT ATTITUDE!

If good health is in place, it seems to me that 88 ain't what it used to be. 

This lady is inspiring (and funny too!)  She is the mayor of the sixth largest city in Canada. Her city has NO debt (plus 700 million in reserve funds!) AND she plays ice hockey.

This is worth viewing until the end especially if you've never seen an 88 year old woman in a music video or on ice skates. :-)

 http://www.wimp.com/bestmayor/

 

 


 
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Written by Kim Isaac   
Monday, 16 August 2010 13:46

Blog-a-thon Day 21

"There are no failures- just experiences and your reactions to them."

 

~~Tom Kraus

 

Autism is a complex information processing disorder that does not come with an owner’s manual.  People who have autism face daily challenges that present themselves to different degrees and can vary day to day. For people who have autism and for people who love someone who has autism, our hopes are high and our actions are tireless. 

 

There are a wide variety of treatment options that come (sometimes) with pressure to try them all OR to have to pick JUST ONE! With this great love comes a motivation to do all that we can and give as much as we can give. As we all know, not all efforts may produce immediate observable results. You may decide to try taking your loved one who has autism to a new place, try a new therapy or try a new diet and things go awry. It feels bad after the fact. It feels like yet another “failure”, which might trigger feelings of hopelessness.

 

While those feelings are completely understandable and natural, we have the option of redefining failure so that it keeps us on the road to success. Failure is defined as: lack of success. Not “lack of success forever”, or “I have screwed everything up forever”. It is simply lack of success based on that isolated experience. With each experience, we are learning how to help individuals who have autism progress and develop their unique and full potential. The road is not smoothly paved, but there are experiences that provide insight on how to adjust. “Failed attempts” have purity and lessons in them that take us to the next level on the journey.

 

What if instead of labeling those unsuccessful experiences as failures, we label them as information? Information about what worked, what did not work and what we have learned because of that experience.

 

Re-defining “failure” can only lead to great things, as we leave the situation with more knowledge than we had before.

 

 

 

Newsletter subscribers will recognize Kim as a contributor to my Living with Attitude E-Letter. And fans of "It's All About Attitude" and/or "Breathe" probably know she has been a part of Kyle's life and ours for 13 1/2 years and has done amazing things for him and our family. Below is a little more information about Kim.

Kim Isaac has worked with people on the autism spectrum for over 13 years. Kim currently holds a professional certification in the Relationship Development Intervention Program(TM) (RDI(TM)) and has been an RDI(TM) Certified Program Consultant for 5 years. Currently, Kim consults with persons and families all over the United States developing balanced intervention programs. Her specialty is working with teens, young adults and adults who have Autism Spectrum Disorders. She has a BS in Psychology from the University of Maryland and at present, is pursuing a Master's degree in Mental Health Counseling. For additional information about Kim Isaac and autism consulting services, please contact her at: 602-481-8925 or This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .

 

 

Last Updated on Monday, 16 August 2010 13:58
 
SHHF PDF Print E-mail
Written by Gayle Nobel   
Sunday, 15 August 2010 16:01

 

Blog-a-thon Day 20

May you be Safe

May you be Healthy

May you be Happy

May you be Free

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Last Updated on Sunday, 15 August 2010 14:03
 
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